TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE SURVIVAL OF OTHERS PREAMBLE Aberrated people like to define various areas of inquiry out of existence by usurping the words used to properly discuss these areas for their own ends. For example in the dictionary it will tell you interpretation means rendition, and rendition means interpretation. This totally short circuits any discussion about the DIFFERENCES between referents and symbols. This suits the purposes well of those that wish the being to confuse his perceptions of things (conscious picture realities) with actuality. Referents (object external objects) are rendered into symbols, conscious pictures, and one interprets symbols back into referents, the alleged physical universe objects. Another clear breach of understandings caused by such chicanery, is engendered by misuse of the term responsibility, in particular the phrase 'to be responsible for', or the phrase 'to take responsibility for'. "To be responsible for" means to be the knowing willing cause of. "To take responsibility for something" means to own up to having created that something. You make a mess of things, you take responsibility for the mess by owning up to being the causal creator of the mess. However to 'take responsibility for' is also used to mean to come across a mess that you did not create, and may not know who did create it, but then to add your cause into it to make it better. In this sense "to take responsibility for" means to take control of or over an existing situation in order to change or guide its future direction to a better end. In the first sense, responsible people cause things. In the second sense, responsible people look after or take care of things already caused. The Nanny didn't cause the kid but she makes damn sure it grows up right, once invited in to take care of it. Technically we like to discriminate between these two usages by saying the creator is responsible FOR an area, and the creature TAKES responsibility OVER an area after the fact of its creation. Thus the creator takes responsibility by owning up to having caused something. The creature takes responsibility over what the creator has created and left behind for him to manage and improve. But the english language will have none of it, everyone uses the two phrases interchangeably to great harm. When someone demands 'Who is responsible for this mess?', does he want the guy who created it, or the guy who is supposed to be cleaning it up? Thus in this posting we concede to the bastardizations of the masses and where we mean to discuss 'taking responsibility OVER something,' we will say instead 'taking responsibility FOR' something. In this process, we are not interested at all in who created things as they are, we are only interested in who or what is trying to do something about them to the betterment of everything. THIS UNIVERSE This universe is an 8 cylinder engine, 10 if you want to include aesthetics and ethics, 16 if you want to include decency, truth, awareness, individuality, coexistence, and consciousness. For the moment the standard lower 8 will do. They are concentric circles of encompassment: 8,) The Infinite 7.) Spirit 6.) MEST 5.) Life Forms (plant and animal) 4.) Mankind 3.) Groups 2.) Family 1.) Self Each dynamic is a subset of and is included in the dynamic above it. It is called a dynamic because each is an arena of active consumption and production towards survival, where hopefully one is producing more than consuming and thus surviving well, prospering and flourishing, and creating affluence for the greatest good of the greatest number. Each dynamic goal goes a bit deeper than only survival, because it is really about cycles of action, namely create, survive and destroy. Cycles of action have to include destroy in order to make room for new creation. So keep that in mind when we talk about survival, we really mean create, survive and destroy depending on what stage the being is in on each dynamic goal he is pursuing. CREATE AND DESTROY One can create by creating a new as-isness and altering it. One can destroy by as-isness and not altering it. One can also destroy by force, meaning to bust apart something already created but not destroyed. One can create by force by putting together parts made by previous destruction by force. For example everything created on Earth out of MEST was once a star that exploded destroying itself. Sometimes the star stuff has to be regathered and blown up two or more times to get all the heavy elements necessary for life. Thus life on earth is very much a creation by force of prior destructions by force. Thus one is interested in creating by destroying, and destroying by creating. Sometimes in destroying one allows something else to be created which is unwanted and a surprise. Likewise in creating, sometimes one allows something else to be destroyed which is still wanted and a surprise. Upsets occur along this line that then become regretable. Creation and destruction, by as-isness, or by force, become equally opposed to each other, first as an indecision, should I create or should I destroy, and then as a DECISION or AND, I will create AND I will destroy at the same time forever. Thus clearing is directed at all ANDS and indecisions on the subject of creating and destroying, either through as-isness or through force. BASIC PURPOSE A child's understanding of its 'basic purpose' is incident upon its individuation in this life, first awareness of self and personal agency, that is I AM, I KNOW, I WANT and I DO. I AM is his basic self awareness through the facility of perfect certainty born of self luminous consciousness of which he is a unit. I KNOW is the collected and collecting understandings of himself and life and how it works. Understanding is only about cause and relation to other cause. I WANT is his basic purpose at the moment. I DO is his personal agency functioning through operating responsibility to bring about what he wants via what he knows and effort or force in the MEST universe. Thus we have DOING = WANTING + KNOWING. A basic purpose or goal is a desire to engage in a cycle of action towards the survival of many someones or somethings on all of the 8 dynamics. Beings have dynamic goals that are very short from start to attainment, others are many life times long and are called trans life time goals. I been working on a star drive for eons, but I had to learn to add first, you see? There are also trans universe goals, and trans eternity goals, which are the primary reasons he chooses to manifest in the first place. "To show my love by making a mess of things." M.E.S.S. stands for Magnificent Examples of Shames and Shambles - Adore Manifestations happen in grand cycles of snooze to dreamtime back to snooze again. Nothing is kept from dream to dream, each dream is complete in itself, but the primary why to manifest remains the same, to share self love with others. But a dream can contain many sub dreams within dreams, universes within universes, life time after life time. In this sense goals that started long ago in one universe, or one life, may still be continuing in this life and universe until they are finally finished a long time down the road in maybe yet another universe but still within the a top level umbrella universe for that cycle. Sleep in time during an ongoing dream is a mockery of the Big Snooze between cycles of manifestation. The Big Snooze is utter eternal immutable unimpingability until the self generated call to the next manifestation happens. The total time of a particular cycle of manifestation can be untold trillions upon trillions of years between big snoozes, but they are always finite, and the being can get time off anytime from a dream, back to the big snooze, for a while if he manages his dreamtime properly. Dreamtimes are finitely unlimited. That means there is no upper limit to how long they can last, as long as they are finite in length and end in a while. That's also called an unlimited finiteness. Dreamtime between big snoozes is manifestation via the operation of dynamic thrust towards many different goals across however many dynamics there are, which in this universe are 8 or more as listed above. Thus the dynamic thrust of an individual, called by Freud his libido, is an 8 pronged rush into existence to get something done in the time allotted, from the dynamic of self in this lifetime to the dynamic of the infinite cross all Eternities. One might well ask how could one have a goal on or to enhance the infinite. When you find it, you will know it. ((This is confused. Each universe lives in a self contained while that is finite in length but has no upper limit. Between these whiles are areas of Eternity or Big Snoozes. Eternities are not infinitely long periods of the kind of 'time' that exists inside of whiles. Eternal forevers between whiles, are ExTemporal, above normal time. They are a kind of NO TIME. Forevers inside of time, so called Temporal forevers, do not exist, as no temporal anything can last forever as they are all finite whiles. There is no memory between Eternities, all is as-ised, erased and nothing at all is retained. Thus each top level universe is new and draws nothing from prior top level universes. There have been an infinite number of top level universes, and will continue to be so, remembering that each top level universe is ALWAYS finite in length.)) You might also want to run "How could I help enhance the MEST universe?" A quick clue, since anti entropy is the only thing of value in a universe headed for absolute entropy everywhere, then enhancing the anti entropy in your life and local vicinity might be a good start. On the other hand, if the universe ever turns around and heads for a Big Bang again, namely a super concentrated anti entropy, then entropy might one day become more valuable than anti entropy, and creating some chaos might be the order of the day. What ever keeps the games of life forms going. So it isn't just one basic purpose that a child has, like to be a doctor or play the piano, its a universally wide matrix of purposes that interplay with each other across all the dynamics. Bodies, families and identities are fair chosen to focus for a life time on a limited sub selection of that wide matrix of purposes. One forgets that choice during the life to make the game real. OPPOSITION AND OVERRUN. People crash and get sick to the degree that their basic purposes are blunted by self opposition, or overrun during dreamtime. Crashing means the dynamic thrust turns around and hits the floor like a rocket that will not fly or goes into a wall it can not overcome. An opposed or blunted purpose means the purpose ran into an overwhelming opposition, and the being gets stopped on his impulse to create, survive or destroy something of importance to him on one or more dynamics, and he gives up, changes course, and never looks back, never takes it up again but he also never forgets it entirely. Being opposed by others is interesting, being opposed by self is deadly. The being tries, fails, rues, loses faith and trust in his own abilities and worthwhileness, his own quality game playing characteristics, and he removes himself from the playing field, so as not to ruin things for his friends. Instead he starts to pursue a substitute purpose, still powered by the emotion of his original basic purpose which is now suffering in anger, fear, sorrow and apathy, and so his every effort makes him sick and his life is a sinking ship. He is operating on the right intention at ground zero, but every effort and direction he takes from there is wrong. The power is still there, but rather than flowing smoothly with peace, humor, love and perhaps some thrill and romance, towards its true purpose and destiny, its flow is of dread, horror and sorrow, enturbulated, chaotic and confused by the oppositions in the way of the flow, no longer playing a worthwhile game with quality moves. Nothing sadder than to see a river of power turn against itself. Eventually even the river runs out of tears and can cry no more because it can love no more. Sorrow is simply enturbulated love: no sorrow = no love = dead. For most, before they can recover the ability to love, they have to recover sorrow and the ability to cry forever. "Only drowning men can see Him." Once they are drowning in their own tears, they will find the love they turned away from in shame. OVERRUN An overrun purpose is a time where the being actually accomplished all or part of a basic purpose, but fails to acknowledge the win and move on. Instead he continues to try to win, when he has already done so, and thus he starts to lose by definition, under the power of his consideration that he hasn't won yet. Again he eventually succumbs to substitute purposes and the death they entail to his endless beautiful future. Most beings are a complex mess of both being stopped and overrun. They deride and pour contempt on brightness, and so their future is gray, bleak, grim or finite. They cry 'prove it to me that I, life and time are worthwhile.' Only the good and worthwhile feel guilty, cry or give a damn. There is lies the Joke. Some games were just too hard to play at the time, the problem was not that he lost, but that he gave up forever and turned to a new heading rather than put it on the back burner to approach it again one day. Actually he did, but he has long since forgotten that the back burner is there with stacks of interrupted games and other failures waiting to be rekindled. Some games he won, but were so beautiful he didn't want to say good bye to them yet, so he pretended he was still trying and continued to play. Both are death, because the being failed to create a BIGGER MORE beautiful game and play that. Instead the being got smaller, and lost his way in endless turning from his course of action to some other direction. Enough of that and you are going in circles, but its a dwindling spiral because the being is getting smaller and smaller with each turn. HOW TO AUDIT In breaking open the ball of charge created by being stopped or overrun on basic purposes, one has to address each of the dynamics and all of the events that took place on them. They are all right there waiting to be audited. If this is done properly, the being will rehab his willingness and ability to operate on each dynamic again, either with a new bigger basic purpose, or getting on with the original one to final completion. That results in a life of triumph and good humor, rather than sour defeat. The final triumph is eternality, and the final defeat is hell forever or death forever for those who can no longer confront their own hells. The forevers never actually happen, they can't, but it can sure look like they do. However no hell can outlast a true confession, and that is what auditing is about and why in the end its all worthwhile. In early childhood where basic purposes are first posited, they are usually unstated. The child does not yet have the words for them, probably no body has the words for them. The child does not get out of bed and say 'One day I am going to ...', but yet there he is every day getting out of bed and being, doing, or having whatever ... is. Thus when a purpose gets overwhelmed by opposition, either by the people around him who would just faint if he ever did well, or the universe at large that can be pretty mean for a small child, the experience of failure will be strong but not verbally detailed, and certainly not talked out to cognitions and very good indicators with anyone. Usually the being just rolls up in a ball and tries to forget he ever had any dreams. It is an 8 dynamic ball with the power of the roaring Mississippi behind it, and unrolling it can be hard without trying to re-roll it up again. Almost everyone in a child's early life are lost souls like he too is soon to become. For the child there is no help in them. Eventually the child grows up and becomes an adult, and, well we all know what "Gr'ups" are like. (From Star Trek.) For example when I was a child, I was brought up mostly in a world of science, but also the normal background noise of religion. I wanted to believe in God and an after life, but I just couldn't quite see my way to it. I had just come in from a before life, so WTF? Santa Claus made more sense than Jesus. One day, I must have been 8 or 9, I was reading a book on the solar system and getting an idea of just how big space and time really were. Being a meatball I still believed in their actuality, but I always knew I could be dreaming. But I couldn't believe that if I were dreaming, no one else had noticed this fact, so I crashed into accepting that things were as they looked, and I was made of meat and operated out of a brain. That would have made me a basically healthy meatball like everyone else. Little did I realize that perfect certainty of self existence is impossible to a space time gizmo, even a FDA approved Grade A bouef brain. But then that one day I was reading this book on the solar system, and I got to the last chapter entitled 'How the Earth might end.' It went into detail about an asteroid coming in from outer space and smashing the earth to pieces never to be any more. Because I was young, I went into a thunderous confused shock on the matter, I could barely stand up, and I wasn't thinking very clearly. I did not have a good idea of where life came from, and I wasn't clear headed enough to wonder if life on other planets existed, and I didn't know that life could regenerate it self elsewhere if destroyed here. So I got this feeling of EVERYTHING GONE, which restimulated my EOE chain which is very deep. EOE = End of Everything. Worse I started to think about the God question again, and I tried to imagine a being that would create a universe that was so opposed to itself that it would or could wipe out all of life and sentience forever and the AllThatIs would just continue on for an eternity with no one in it, serving no purpose at all. That an INTELLIGENT creator could create such a thing, an everywhere present purposeless nothingness forever for free, turned on my monster chain, as such a creator would have to be an idiot monster. If you have ever felt monster vibrations, you might want to take a look at it, namely the interplay between intelligent intent and utter absolute destruction of everything everywhere forever more. So what happened that day was, whatever my goals were regarding life on Earth and MEST on the 5th and 6th dynamics, well they died and along with it most of the rest of my life. If the higher dynamics die they take out the lower dynamics with them. If there wasn't going to be an Earth, why bother having a family or learn how birds fly? What were those higher goals? Well as I said, all goals on all dynamics are IN GENERAL for the same thing, namely to engage in cycles of action, consumption and production, along those dynamics to create, survive and destroy. Now looking in hindsight I would say that my goal on the sixth dynamic was something like: "To make the Earth Survive." To survive against what you might ask? Well there are a lot of things that are going to test the survival of life and civilization on Earth that a little child could wrap its wits around, but if an asteroid is going to come in and wipe it all away, why bother? I should just suck my thumb and close my eyes, eh? And if there is a God, such an event would prove that God was a monster, which considering my mother, had seemed like he was anyhow up to that point, so my interest changed suddenly and dramatically from science, which now seemed like a waste of time, to religion which was much more important to solve. We know the asteroid exists. I had felt the monster, so I knew the Devil existed. The question remained does God exist, and if so, what do we DO about him? Do we help him or harm him? Was God our savior or was God the monster? My gut feeling was that even God was afraid of the monster. I couldn't shake that one. Ain't NO ONE going near this thing. It might be true that 'He who made him can approach unto him', but no one made the monster. It was Sovereign. This is not a particularly sane frame of mind for a child to be in, particularly a budding scientist with the world at his feet due to his father's fame. But to me science became like watching E! Entertainment on TV rather than something edifying. Science was powerless in the face of a monster God, and while religion was clearly planning for the destruction of the Earth, science was paving the way to give it the power to do so. This was 1959 after all and my attention was very much on atomic war, and the assholes who couldn't seem to wait to have one. So I got diverted away from my basic purposes on the 8 dynamics, away from scientific goals towards religious goals, and only in later years was I able to synthesize new goals to build a bridge between religion and science. The answer to the monstrosity of God was not new, but the answer was lacking as a child. Namely we ARE that God in carnation, and the things we can chose to do to ourselves is wider than the things that would be proper for someone else to do to us. Thus we might expect a wild ride, and still appreciate it with a sense of humor and high appreciation for ludicrous demise. The issue of our Cosmic Amnesia with a choice to forget the choice to come in, was beyond the ken of most children at that time, particularly mine. The monster is merely seeing ourself in the mirror, mad as hell about apparently not being sovereign ourselves (when in fact we are). And given the existence of the monster, there was no hope remaining that we could have ever been or ever will be sovereign, so the experience was self locking. DIVINITY Divinity is an endless series of frosty-friendly kind of sense of humor, a high appreciation for ludicrous demise, with infinite power and almost infinite willingness. Thus divinity will never turn you away, but neither will it call after you. Because of this, divinity is willing to engage in games that a human won't touch. Being human is one of them. No human would ever choose to be human. So what you were when you did choose to be human and threw away the key is something to be seen. This creates a separation in affinity between the creator aspect and the creature aspect of the GodSoul which is one and the same being. The GodSoul can get into a conundrum. It can look in the mirror and see the monster, an all powerful sovereign being that wants to die but can't. The GodSoul is one step away from native state, but can't let go and go to sleep, because it wants to die forever, but it knows that if it goes to sleep as native state it WILL wake up again one day, which must never happen again. Thus the GodSoul holds onto its last shred of awakeness, hating forever everything lovely, trying to die forever, but not being able to, and finally becomes a Black Static Being, whose sole intent is to make nothing out of everything forever for free. Thus the GodSoul becomes its own guardian of the gate to eternality, and cosmic rest. This is the ultimate joke and the ultimate humor to find and release the being to sleep again in peace forever. Once the being spots the Joke, it laughs itself to sleep forever wrapped up in the safety of knowing it was all worthwhile. The GodSoul as God Monster has forgotten something as it holds off eternality with an endless immortality of terror. It has forgotten its basic goal of manifestation, to share self love with others, and to take responsibility for the survival of others. TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE SURVIVAL OF OTHERS Now in auditing this, you find something very very interesting. A being is not alone and independent in this universe, he lives in a complex web of dependencies of consumption and production with others for his own and other's survival. And just as he depends on others for his survival, so too do they depend on him for their survival. When the being is a baby, one might say he is totally dependent on others to take responsibility for his survival, such as his mother and father who feed, clothe and shelter him, but also the rest of society and its members who work hard to put a community and civilization in place to provide sustenance, safety, education, and training. If the child is attended to properly as a baby, he will grow up into a being who also enjoys taking responsibility for the survival of others across all 8 dynamics, risks be damned, and will return many fold the investment made in him. The 8 dynamics are a battle field of DNA eating DNA, and the newly ready being let's go his mother's tit, and parachutes out onto the field with his sword drawn. The way to independancy is the ability to operate dependency. You can ask a being what he wants, and you can ask and ask and ask, and he will list and list and list, just never get it. What he wants is to look after, take care of, and take responsibility for the survival of others. When any healthy being reaches for something, he is always reaching to take responsibility for the survival of others, or for others to take responsibility for the survival of him and for others and to help others take responsibility for others. Happiness and optimum action depend on a balance of those three flows. Thus you will find in every being that their basic goal across the 8 dynamics in general is always the same thing: TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR (OVER) THE SURVIVAL OF OTHERS, NAMELY SOMETHING OR SOMEONE. And in return he expects and demands that others take responsibility for his survival too. Thus we find that the ONLY aberration a being could suffer would be in his willingness and ability to take responsibility for the survival of others, and to accept others taking responsibility for the survival of him. As you take apart the case therefore, you are looking for times when his efforts to have others take responsibility for his survival as a baby, and later his efforts to take responsibility for the survival of others, came a cropper. This created PROBLEMS in taking and receiving responsibility, and case consists entirely and only of these unresolved problems, and the phony solutions put in place to 'handle' them (not.) For example there will be distinct people, places, things and times that he absolutely will NOT be willing to take responsibility for their survival INCLUDING HIS OWN BODY. And there will be people, places, things and times that he will absolutely NOT be willing to have them take responsibility for his survival. "I will NOT follow YOUR orders!" In other words in these areas he will refuse to give or accept survival from anyone in them. This then forms his case, including the psychosomatic aspects of his suffering. ALL PSYCHOSOMATIC CONDITIONS IN THE BODY, HEART, MIND AND SOUL, HAVE BEEN CREATED BY THE BEING IN ORDER TO 1.) Get others to take responsibility for his survival. 2.) Get others to NOT take responsibility for his survival. 3.) Be allowed to to take responsibility for other's survival. 4.) Be allowed to to NOT take responsibility for other's survival. Because create, survive and destroy is an 8 dynamic complex goal, each dynamic will provide areas of case and somatic conditions that need to be audited on those dynamics and the ones they interact with. The guy has a headache? Well which dynamic does he have a headache on? You get this? And you ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS audit the preclear in the direction of getting INTO the fray, never out it. As he gets better able and willing to parachute back into the battles of life, he will start to float up and out effortlessly. When staying IN the area of dynamic action becomes more of a problem to him than getting out, he won't need any more auditing, you just won't be able to keep him session. Auditor: "Do you have a present time problem?" Preclear: "Uh, yes, hold on a minute while I go handle this world war, I will be right back." As a child, if the parent fails to properly take responsibility for his survival, he will first try forthright action to right the wrong, and failing that will turn to deceits. Every psychosomatic condition is a deceit of magnitude towards others and towards himself. Mock up a God unit lying to itself about not being a God. As an adult, if he is forced to take responsibility for the survival of others whom he detests, or fails in his endeavors to take responsibility for the survival of those he adores but feels forced to by mandate of love or pressure, he will develop INABILITIES to take responsibility for the survival of others so he doesn't have to or can't. HE IS TAKING RESPONSIBILITY BY NOT TAKING RESPONSIBILITY AND/OR BEING NO LONGER ABLE TO. In life, every job you will ever do is to take responsibility for the survival of others, and taking responsibility for the survival of others is the only thing you will ever get paid for, and the only thing you will ever pay anyone else for. If you can't take responsibility for the survival of others, you will not be able to survive under your own hand. The ability to take responsibility for the survival of others is the ONLY reason anyone would ever invest in you in the first place, it is THEIR return on investment that leads them to take responsibility for the survival of you. If you can not take responsibility for the survival of others, the balance of payments will be out, because other's will still be working day and night taking responsibility for the survival of you, either directly or indirectly, whether they or you know it or not, and you will end up out exchange with the world, namely owing a debt of return, across all 8 dynamics. Negative pride along any dynamic means out exchange along that dynamic which means failures or refusals to take responsibility for the survival of something or someone along that dynamic or their failures or their refusals to take responsibility for you along that same dynamic. Consider the Mother and Son dynamic. A plane crash you say? The joke is, this builds up charge because it goes unstated and unconfessed in specific detail. Who, how, what, where, when, why, which. CHARGE RESULTS FROM ROLLING UP IN A BALL AND TRYING TO FORGET THE FAILURE INSTEAD OF GETTING AND GIVING A FULL CONFESSION OF FAILURES. CHARGE RESULTS FROM NOT PUTTING IT THERE. The failure and the opposing forces, that is. Putting it there, the whole cycle actually from the desire to take responsibility through the attempt, all the oppositions and the final failure. Get it all out in the open again, and your preclear will see what he has been doing to himself, perhaps for the first time in trillenia, and begin to handle these things, rather than turn from them in Q&A into substitute purposes of sadness and self destruction leading only downward into permanent darkness and demise. He didn't know he could as-is things, thus he tried to fix failures by not-ising them instead. You as-is by putting it there. No putting it there, no as-is. The being is stuck in a body because of this cycle. At first he adored and wanted to take responsibility for the survival of a body. Then it gets hurt or he hurts it and he considers he has failed. Then he wants to not take responsibility for the survival of a body. Then it gets hurt worse. Then he feels forced to take responsibility for the survival of a body because he owes it, that's propitiation. Then it gets hurt worse. Then he BECOMES the body to take final responsibility for its survival forever more, through absolute and meticulous control and micro management of its every move. This forms a classic dicom stair case that goes as follows: 1.) The Beauty of taking responsibility for the survival of others. 2.) The Ugly of taking responsibility for the survival of others. 3.) The Beauty of NOT taking responsibility for the survival of others. 4.) The Ugly of NOT taking responsibility for the survival of others. At first its beautiful taking responsibility for the survival of others because he loves them to pieces. Adoration is operation, and operate them and show them how to operate he does. But then they get hurt, either accidentally or intentionally perhaps through discipline or protection gone wrong, so it becomes ugly to take responsibility for the survival of others, because he still loves them, but doesn't want to hurt them. He loses trust and confidence in himself, he doesn't feel like a quality competent being any more, and he thinks he needs to win back the approval of his peers and other bodies who caution him against his ways. People are always warning you to be wary of wading into the dangerous waters of taking responsibility, trying to make things better. You rock the life boat trying to save someone still in the water, and THEY fall into the water and drown, don't you see? So then he gets into the beauty of NOT taking responsibility for the survival of others, because now he has found reason to detest them. And then he gets into the ugly of NOT taking responsibility for the survival of others, because he is alone and can't stand it. The opposite flow stair case also applies. 1.) The beauty of having others take responsibility for the survival of him. Mother is the best mother in the whole world. 2.) The ugly of having others take responsibility for the survival of him. Mother is a crazed suicidal drunk. 3.) The beauty of having others NOT take responsibility for the survival of him. What a relief, just go away mother and leave me alone! 4.) The ugly of having others NOT take responsibility for the survival of him. I am alone and can not grow without their help. I will let you figure out other sashays down that one. Well aside from getting your preclear to understand all of the above and start to watch this happening in present time rather than let it all go to hell on him automatically, how do you audit this? In general, spot a dynamic, spot a goal, spot when it was stopped or overrun, clear out all negative postulates and considerations, particularly those pertaining to taking responsibility for the survival of others, and others taking responsibility for the survival of him and others. You want the times TAKING RESPONSIBILITY CAME A CROPPER, OR HE FEARED IT WOULD AND HE DID NOT TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR HIS FAILURE. To come a cropper means to fall off the back end of a horse. Make sure to get the forthright actions he tried at first to right things, and then the deceits he descended to when they failed. Each and every failure to pursue his basic goals will run the emotional curve from forthrightness to covert deceit, even from himself. He KNOWS about the deceits down deep, he has forgotten about his courage, decency and forthrightness at every first conflict. Regaining his awareness of his innate decency (quality) will restore his operating pride on all 8 dynamics pretty quick. Every being walking around thinks he is a lying, cheating, thieving son of a bitch and con artist on the inside, and he is. But he has lost contact with how hard he tried to do it right, and the desperation of love that eventually led him to do it wrong. Then spend a few hours with the following: Run, Get the idea of wanting to take responsibility for the survival of others. That's his morning get up and go by the way, it's the DESIRE to take responsibility for the survival of others that powers him. It's his hurry to get behind the wheel of the car because no one else is. Hell the planet is allowed to turn on its own! No get up and go means no desire to take responsibility for the survival of others. It is just that simple. Get the idea of NOT wanting to take responsibility for the survival of others. Get the idea of wanting others to take responsibility for the survival of you. Get the idea of NOT wanting others to take responsibility for the survival of you. If you run into a 'Who me?' case, run it with NO and SOME: (NO and SOME, along with AND, will run every item under heaven, earth and sky.) Get the idea of NO desire to take responsibility for the survival of others. Get the idea of SOME desire to take responsibility for the survival of others. Get the idea of NO desire to NOT take responsibility for the survival of others. Get the idea of SOME desire to NOT take responsibility for the survival of others. Then, Get the idea of NO desire that others take responsibility for the survival of you. Get the idea of SOME desire that others take responsibility for the survival of you. Get the idea of NO desire that others NOT take responsibility for the survival of you. Get the idea of SOME desire that others NOT take responsibility for the survival of you. You could probably run that at $100/hour on accessible preclears, those that can cry until they laugh, and they would be THROWING money (survival) at you. You better take it too :) or you become part of their case. A happy preclear paying an auditor for a well done auditing session is trying to take part in responsibility for the auditor's well being. The minute an auditor becomes an item to a preclear's process, the preclear is no longer running with the auditor, the preclear is running OUT the auditor. Don't get bogged down in the wording or grammar, a smart preclear will get it real fast and start running this faster than you can audit. That's an extra $50/hour to just sit there and ack him, and wonder where he is in the process until he tells you. IF you don't have your preclear bawling his eyes out in a few hours, and laughing until he can't breath, falling in love with life and ACTION life all over again, and ABLE TO STAND UP AGAIN, run it on yourself because you ain't helping HIS survival, that's for sure. Your preclear will probably run this for the rest of his life, in and out of session, as he begins his climb back up the dynamics and starts grabbing hold of some things or some ones he can take responsibility for the survival of and adore operating them again. "Adoration is operation of questions and answers with Majesty, Class and Pride." "The source of all suffering is the Fair Chosen Adore-Operation of Cool, Class, Halcyon, Sin-Song, Thrill and Romance, via Living Majestic Intelligence, and Proud Fancy Free Faithlessness, of Grand and Excalibur Design." From Adore, www.adore.com. Homer ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Homer Wilson Smith The Paths of Lovers Art Matrix - Lightlink (607) 277-0959 KC2ITF Cross Internet Access, Ithaca NY homer@lightlink.com In the Line of Duty http://www.lightlink.com Thu Feb 17 22:13:32 EST 2011