There is,
 
    Wanting help.
 
    Wanting to be helped.
 
    Wanting to help.
 
    Wanting harm.
 
    Wanting to harm.
 
    Wanting to be harmed.
 
    There is,
 
    Helping to harm.
 
    Helping by harming.
 
    Harming to help.
 
    Harming by helping.

    The intention can be to Help or Harm.

    The method can be to Help or Harm.
    
    The result can be Harm or Help.
 
    Psychosomatics may be caused by wanting to help or wanting to be
helped, but doing so by harming. 

    The first step to any auditing program therefore is clearing
 
    Wanting and Needing Help and Harm, intentions, methods and results. 
 
    Homer

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