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     A Bit of Ivy growing on the wall.....

     by Kenneth Urquhart

     Your personal integrity is your greatest asset.  It is your most
precious possession.  It is your closest and most intimate reflection
of who you really are.
     Your personal integrity can shine forth from you and your body as
the brightest, largest, and purest diamond dazzles and blazes in the
richest imperial crown.  When it glisters in you your heart is its
lightest, your voice its sweetest, your touch its tenderest, your joy
its loveliest.
     L.  Ron Hubbard had two tools that are very relevant to the
reality of personal integrity.  One was what he called the ARC
Triangle.  For those who are not familiar with the ARC triangle, an
introduction: 'A' stands for Affinity, or degree of closeness; 'R' is
for Reality, or degree of agreement; 'C' is for Communication, or the
degree of willingness to interact.  Hubbard makes A,R, and C each one
point of a triangle and makes two important observations about the
triangle.  First, at any given time in a specific situation or
relationship, the degrees of A, R, and C are roughly in
equilibrium--that is, the intensity of each is steady as long as the
others are steady.  Second, if any one of A, R, or C is increased or
lowered, the other two expand or contract in parallel to maintain the
equilibrium.  If for example, you and I have a relationship, and for
some reason I disagree with an action you take, my R with you falls.
This immediately causes a lessening of my A for you (I might be
annoyed, or furious; I am certainly less friendly) and my lessened A
is expressed in my Communicating to you with some force, or effort,
perhaps with pain, and then not wanting to communicate further.  Let's
say I later find out that you in fact had a very good reason to do
what you did that I didn't know about at the time.  My response was
not appropriate and it caused you to have less ARC for me.  I approach
you, communicate to you openly, acknowledging my error and your
rightness, expressing my regret for causing you pain inappropriately,
and doing whatever else I must do to put things right between us.  As
I do, and providing you are willing, our mutual A is restored, our R
or agreement is reestablished, and our C resumes its friendly tone.
Indeed, through this experience, through the honest exchange of honest
viewpoints, through the openly shared experience, our ARC will be
higher than before.  "Communication is the universal solvent," Hubbard
rightly said.
     Only when we are true to our uniquely individual integrity are we
'in ARC' (as the phrase is) with ourselves.  The truer we are, the
higher the ARC with self.  When we are less true, the lower the ARC
with self.  Having less ARC with self, we have unhappiness and pain.
There is ALWAYS a solution for lessened ARC or absence of ARC (whether
for yourself for others): you explore the factors A, R, and C, to find
out which you can improve even if just a little bit or, if you are
lucky, a lot, and quickly, and you DO that.  Improve that one factor.
As you do, the other two automatically improve with it.  Then you can
improve one of those, and so it goes.  In our example , when I
realized that I had misjudged you, I regretted that you had
experienced a lessening of your ARC for me and I understand that a
reduction in ARC causes pain.  And I felt bad because my ARC for
myself had dropped (and I felt pain about what I had done).  My first
action might be to accept that I had goofed, and to acknowledge
exactly how I had goofed.  This is now real to me.  I can therefore
communicate with myself about it and can allow myself space to
experience my own feelings about it (my affinity for me).  Now it is
perfectly clear to me that I must come to you and make a clean breast
of it all with you.  In being honest with you I allow each of us to C,
to reach R, and express A--firstly in any negative way necessary to
get out into the open and out of the way all upset or pain, and then
positively so that we reestablish our trust in each other.  For each
of us, ARC with self is restored when ARC for each other is restored.
     The second tool is a triangle parallel to the ARC triangle and
interacting with it.  In fact, you use it to increase ARC.  In
increasing ARC you must use the other.  The result is always increased
ARC; the results of increased ARC are always happy, always desirable.
Improved ARC is pleasing always to personal integrity.
     Hubbard called it the KRC Triangle.  'K' is for Knowledge, 'R' is
for Responsibility, 'C' is for Control.  Knowledge is the result of
your ability to know, it's what you have certainty about, what is
really real to you, what you can be strongly in agreement about but
you do not need to be agreed with about it in order for you to
maintain your certainty.  It is what engages your integrity: when you
know something is right or is wrong your integrity activates almost
automatically, watching for your action that will please it.
Responsibility is the result of your caring about what happens to (or
with) that with which you are dealing, and your caring for it arises
out of your integrity.  Control is what you need to do, what your
integrity tells you you must do, to care for what you are dealing
with.  The parts of Control (using Hubbard's definition of the term)
are: Start, Change, Stop.  You start something, you change something,
or you stop something when you are controlling.  You are willing to
start, change, or stop when you are in control.  When you control you
are in communication with what you are controlling (even if the
subject of your control is unaware of being controlled by you).  Now
your Communication includes the qualities of Knowledge and
Responsibility, since you are communicating in order to Control.  You
are controlling out of your knowing what is and the potential of what
is, and out of your responsibility or caring you move 'what is' closer
to something your knowing indicates to you is higher and better ARC.
     We can apply the KRC triangle to the example of our break in ARC
and how we handled it.  As I became aware that I had messed up the ARC
between you and me, I moved into a changed mode.  It's as though I
shifted gears.  I felt the hot pain of knowing I'd done wrong, I'd
destroyed ARC.  My integrity prompted me to come to grips with it and
to understand the situation I had created for myself in relation to
our prior ARC.  In coming to grips with it, I knew what I'd done.  My
integrity reminded me that what I had done I could do something about
and prompted me to feel a desire to handle it well (my
Responsibility).  I knew how to bring about what I knew should be
done, and I focused my action on having it happen (Control,
discipline, and intention).  I did not sit down and write an essay.  I
did not put down "Knowledge" at the top of a sheet of paper and make a
list.  I simply followed the promptings of my own integrity as
reflected in my heart, and I put myself into the flow of KRC on the
subject of ARC for myself at that moment.  I experienced KRC,and
through that experience I enjoyed restored ARC for myself, and so went
on to create restored ARC between us.
     When you raise the level of your Knowing, or of your
Responsibility, or of your Control, you raise each of the others, just
as in the ARC triangle.  When one lessens, the others lessen with it.
When KRC lessens, you again have pain and unhappiness.  The lessening
of ARC and KRC for self is always contrary to the flow of one's
integrity, and that which is contrary to the flow of integrity always
makes itself felt as pain.  You just cannot ever get away with being
untrue to your integrity.  You can try to be numb to that pain, you
can exist for eons pretending the pain isn't there; your integrity is
unextinguishable, it is beyond space and time.  You can laugh all the
way to the bank in flagrant disregard of your integrity and perhaps
die "rich"; in some future life you will pay the price, with interest.
     You have, you acquire, and you develop the KRC of how you
increase ARC with yourself and with others.  Life rewards us for
experiencing with integrity.  What clearing technology, or any true
enhancement technique or activity, helps us learn better, is that
precise KRC--of increasing ARC with self and Life.  It's what
education is supposed to be about.
     The result of such work is that you achieve a true reflection or
manifestation of your unique personal integrity.  Your integrity
requires you to have ARC and KRC for your integrity, and thus for
yourself, and thus for Life.  In order for you to have unblemished KRC
and ARC for yourself you must have done your utmost to manifest your
KRC and ARC for self and Life.  You manifest the most KRC and ARC for
Life by using your abilities to encourage as many others as you can
reach to manifest the most they can of their own KRC and ARC for self
and Life.  You celebrate eternally the unlimiting of KRC and ARC for
self and Life.  Your unique individual integrity demands no less; it
demands that you celebrate, with wonder and joy, your being who you
are, being with Life, being with those who are being who they are with
you and with Life.  Now you are truly who you are, now you are at the
feet of God.
     You know when you are close to who you truly are.  You know it
when you open your heart, trust it, and follow its promptings towards
its satisfactions, towards its joys.  Let your heart be in wonder.
Wonder is the response of the open heart, the willingness to
experience newly with KRC and ARC in every moment, with unstinted
loyalty to personal integrity.
     Osho says: "One who has lost his sense of wonder will never be
able to attain bliss, because wonder is the door to bliss.  He whose
door of wonder is closed will not be able to enter the palace of
     Jesus says: "The Kingdom of God is within you."
     Buddha says: "See the false as false, The true as true.  Look
into your heart.  Follow your nature."